Wow, things turn to shit quickly with Marylou. She went from grateful to spiteful in under 3 days. The pity party is huge. She wants to die every 15 minutes and last night was a nightmare. She’d keep yelling for help and Nina would have to reposition her in bed or give her water or some such shit.
Monday we’ll be heading to Vida Encantada to check on space availability there. That’s where Shirley was when she was in a home. At least it’s closer than any place in Chicago. I hope we can place her there by wednesday latest.
I was so proud of Nina last night. She was putting ML to bed and she ripped into her about her attitude and her whininess in general. She gave her 5 minutes of it and ML apologized to Nina.
I was typing this when I heard “water. water. water.” coming from her room. Walked in and gave her some and then left. No words were spoken, no thank you. What a nasty woman.
People told me that she would not be nice and I didn’t believe them. I was wrong and you all were right. She seemed so helpless and contrite during my visits to her prior to her coming here. She fooled me. Vile people don’t change.
As things happen with her daily I will add to the day’s post to update you all. At least those that care.
Last night she woke up around 11:30 screaming for help. She had to go #1. Nina dealt with that is her normal, unflappable way. I have no clue about the details and I’m sure that you’d rather not read them.
She woke up around 7:30 and Nina got her up and ready for her day.
When I got up today, several hours earlier than both of them, I rearranged the furniture to make room for the second wheelchair. When Nina finally wheeled ML into the room, she noticed the changes right away and told me that us taking her in may have been a mistake because she’s causing us to upset our whole household for her. I told her that any upset is a one time thing and that we’ll deal with things this week and then things will settle down.
She then told me that if we feel she’s too much of a burden, we should just place her back in a home like the one in Illinois. WTF!? I could have found a nicer place in Illinois and placed her there and it would have been easier. The place where Dick is maybe? Saratoga? Oh well.
Well, there’s been a change sorta. She can’t sit in her wheelchair for long periods of time. There’s no support for her neck and head and that bothers her. We’ve moved her to chair that offers her the support she needs and she appears happier. This old person is very high maintenance compared to the other old person we have. We’re thinking of making a trade, but we have to research that further.
Now ML has decided that she wants to go back to the home in Chicago. She felt more comfortable there and she feels like she’s a burden to us. Oh yeah, she wants to die, still. This woman is very depressed.
I won $17 last night at the weekly nickel/dime game at Curt’s house. I did Joe more than a few nasties last night, taking pots from him while he was holding 4 of a kind, straight flushes, and the like. I got the cards last night and while he did too, I got better cards.
It was also nice that Jiminy didn’t show up. Nice guy, but he’s annoying, at least to me. I was also glad that Ted never showed. Good guy, but everytime he shows, my luck circles the rim.
It was a pretty easy thing with the exception of having to take her to the doctor. Getting her up and down the stairs is a pain in the ass. Luckily John, a.k.a. Buddah, was here to help me both up and down the stairs.
She’s talkative compared to Shirley. She keeps telling me; family history, how much she likes Christina, and how she worries that Shirley doesn’t want her there. All shit that I’ve heard about way to much.
She prefers to be in bed more than Shirley. Works for me.
She eats more and better than Shirley.
All in all it’s not terrible. All in all it’s still new. All in all it’s not great.
She has told me at least 3 times that she wishes she had died. She keeps that up and I’ll tell her how to end it.
It was a long day yesterday and I did a lot of driving, around 300 miles.
Marylou is here. She’s very grateful to us for taking her in, but I wonder if that gratitude will hold, and if it does we’ll do just fine. Mom, thanks for all your help during this trip and your generosity with the earlier trips. Staying with you made this possible and being with you, when not working on ML’s condo, made it fun.
I’ll keep you all updated here about what happens, how they feel about each other, and other general b.s.
So today is the day that Nina returns home with our newest old person. Marylou will join Shirley in our version of the old people’s home. Instead of them sitting by the nurse’s station with all the other old people, they will be sitting in their wheelchairs near me watching, or at least listening, to the TV.
Speaking of TV. . . .why are TV lawyers all very good looking and real life lawyers are less than good looking? Well, maybe that’s a broad statement, but since my focus is mainly here in New Mexico I can narrow the question to NM lawyers. Yes, I’m sitting here watching the news again and there was a double up of lawyers on 2 new stories and they showed 4 of the ugliest lawyers I have ever seen on TV. 3 guys and 1 lady.
It’s supposed to be in the 70’s today. Damned winter weather! When will it let up! Hey, the weather liar said tomorrow and the next day should be the same, but the weekend is supposed to get cold again.
Crap. They’re talking about political races again on TV. Why can’t these scum give us a break on this garbage? Politicians should be limited to a 60 day period before an election to politick us poor saps and they should be given a 3 day period afterwards to say thanks to the idiots that elected them. Then they should just shut up. Just my opinion.
Erin and I had a fight this morning. Well, more of a disagreement. This happened around 5 a.m. and I sent her to her mother’s room to sulk. Why should my morning be ruined while her mother sleeps, right?
Here I sit, bored to death, watching Shirley bob her head and drool and eat. Eat your heart out everyone, my life ROCKS.
I do have dinner plans this evening though. Going to dinner with Joe and Dennis at el Rialto in Las Vegas. A guy’s night out! Since I’m the only one of the 3 that drinks, I probably should drive, right? Right?
Tori talks fast. Real fast.
Erin wants to visit Old Beppe, a.k.a. Mom. She wants her to come live with us like GiGi and MiMi. (Don’t ask)
I think this summer I’m gonna bring Erin to Michigan. I think she’s ready to go back there with me.
Found something cool on this blog program. On the calendar you can hover over the date a little box opens telling you the title of what I posted. If it is a public post you can open and read it. If it’s a private post, too bad.
At BK in Alb yesterday, Erin played and I talked to another grandparent. We spent almost 2 hours there.
Nina left me yesterday. I’m devastated. She returns tomorrow so I’ll be happy again.
If things go well with ML moving in and we’re looking for additional help to ensure that it does, Nina and I are talking about London or Amsterdam or both in May. Just a pipe-dream at this point, but who knows. We are close to the miles needed for 2 free tickets and should be where we need to be by April.
Shirley talked to me this morning when I asked her if she was ready to get out of bed. Nothing since. *Cue the Twilight Zone theme song*
One of ML’s banks sent Nina a letter requiring documents that aren’t possible to generate. Address verification shit that is complicated by the fact that the county gives us one address and the USPS gives us another one. Dumbasses. Government should be banned.
Only 2.5 hours until I leave and go to dinner.
Long day tomorrow. Meeting in Las Vegas for the tourism committee and then a presentation from the state tourism board. From there I head to Alb. to pick up Nina and ML. Busy day and lots of driving.
I’m having trouble finding the new S & W’s I was looking for. Oh well, they will show up eventually.
65° outside now. This is more normal for us than the stinking cold we’ve been having this year, and last year, and I think the previous year. I’m feeling the cold more lately.
Stupid bank holidays! Just screws with my schedule for no real reason other than the government employees pimp the government into giving them an asinine amount of paid time off. Now I have to eat breakfast at home.
Yesterday Erin and I went to the Pecos National Monument just outside of Pecos. She ran the entire 1.2 miles and I walked it at a stiff pace. Pictures are in a preceding post here. Every time I go there with her, I see new things that she brings to my attention. Her energy alone makes the walk more of a workout than normal. In this church ruins she disappeared. Popped up a few minutes later in the rectory ruins and I have no idea how she got there.
I enjoy watching the news while eating breakfast. It starts here at 5 a.m. and runs until 9 a.m. I just leave it play until it ends and do chores after breakfast while listening to the news. Sometimes I find it aggrevating when the news readers try to spin shit to suit their beliefs, but there’s no stopping the idiots.
Should be in the 50’s today. I may head to Pecos again today after dropping Nina off at the airport. I may even bring Erin to Alb so she can join me again.
Have a great week everyone.
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